Tips to celebrate your friends’ graduation

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This article was written by Qaqamba Falithenjwa.

Graduation is one of life’s biggest milestones, and when a friend reaches this achievement, it’s only right to celebrate them in a meaningful way. Whether they’ve completed high school, university, or a specialised course, your support can make their big day even more special. Experts say that thoughtful gestures, whether big or small, can leave a lasting impact.

A personal and heartfelt message goes a long way. According to Psychology Today, words of affirmation can boost self-esteem and reinforce a sense of accomplishment. Instead of a generic “Congrats!” take the time to write a meaningful card or a social media post highlighting their hard work, dedication, and the challenges they overcame. A simple, “I’ve seen how much effort you’ve put into this, and I couldn’t be prouder of you” can make all the difference.

Throwing a graduation party is a classic way to celebrate, and it doesn’t have to be extravagant. Forbes suggests that experiences are more valuable than material gifts, so a small gathering with close friends and family can be just as special as a grand event. Whether it’s a backyard barbecue, a picnic in the park, or a themed party, the focus should be on making the graduate feel appreciated.

Gifts can also be a great way to show support. According to a CNBC report, practical gifts such as career-related books, professional attire, or financial contributions are among the most appreciated by graduates. If you want something more personal, consider a customised keepsake like a photo album of their school years, a framed inspirational quote, or a handwritten letter for encouragement as they enter the next phase of their life.

For friends who prefer experiences over material gifts, planning a fun activity can be just as meaningful. Research from the Journal of Consumer Psychology shows that shared experiences strengthen relationships. Organising a weekend getaway, a concert night, or even a fun day out can create lasting memories and give the graduate a well-deserved break.

No matter how you choose to celebrate, the most important thing is to acknowledge their achievement in a way that feels personal. Whether it’s through words, a party, a thoughtful gift, or a shared experience, your support and excitement will mean the world to them. Graduation marks the end of one chapter and the beginning of another, and there’s no better way to start a new journey than feeling loved and celebrated by friends.

This article first appeared on Bona.