On a bus headed to the set of the soap opera âDays of Our Livesâ in 2005, Donald Trump was secretly recorded saying he was drawn like a magnet to beautiful women. âI just start kissing them,â he boasted. âI donât even wait.â
After the recording was released Friday, backlash didnât wait, either. Critics across the political spectrum said the Republican presidential nomineeâs comments crossed the line from vulgarity to assault and underscored a need to push back against misogyny and so-called rape culture.
âSomeone with such disrespect for women, with such a misogynistic lifestyle who boasts about using his power to sexually assault women cannot â and will not â be the leader of this country,â said National Organization for Women president Terry OâNeill.
Dozens of Republican officials called for their own presidential nominee to quit the race. Reince Priebus, chairman of the Republican National Committee, tersely stated: âNo woman should ever be described in these terms or talked about in this manner. Ever.â
Kelly Oxford, an author and social media personality, posted an account of an older man on a city bus grabbing her crotch and smiling at her. She asked other women to share their own harrowing assault stories, and thousands did, pushing #NotOK into a trending topic on Twitter.
Trump has provided plenty of fodder for the conversation. He has called a Miss Universe winner âMiss Piggy,â referring to actress Rosie OâDonnell as a âpig,â and speculated that Fox News anchor Megyn Kelly asked him tough questions because she was menstruating.
One sidebar of the debate centered on whether men really talked that way when they are not around women. âAll men talk like this, get over it,â wrote someone with the Twitter handle @psychicempress. To which many replied: âNo they donât.â
Since that 2005 conversation, sexual violence against women and how society deals with it are more often discussed, in part because of the rise of social media. The issue was at the center of an outcry over a six-month jail sentence for a former Stanford University swimmer who sexually assaulted an unconscious woman. Fox News chief Roger Ailes was recently ousted over charges of his mistreatment of women.
And sexual violence is the main issue surrounding charges that Bill Cosby, 79, drugged and molested a woman at his suburban Philadelphia home in 2004. Cosby, who has faced multiple accusations of sexual misconduct from various women, says his encounters with women were consensual.
In a statement, Trump initially called his remarks âlocker room banter.â
Brandon Morrow, a pitcher with the San Diego Padres, tweeted that heâs been around locker room banter but Trumpâs words were âa few of the most disgusting things Iâve heard a man say.â
Daniel Weingarten, a 24-year-old Los Angeles-based actor and writer, posted a video in which he shot down the notion that men behind closed doors talk like Trump. âReal men donât say these things. Real men donât brag about sexual assault like itâs a badge of honor.â
Trump called the taped comments âa distraction from the issues we are facing today.â He said that his âfoolishâ words are much different than the words and actions of Bill Clinton, whom he accused of abusing women, and Hillary Clinton, whom he accused of having âbullied, attacked, shamed and intimidated his victims.â
Right-leaning radio host Laura Ingraham tried to defend Trump, saying that while âobjectifying women with graphic language is appalling,â liberals have âlittle credibility on this issue.â
But Trump supporters were easily swamped by outraged Americans.
âAs a human being, I am appalled by Trumpâs words,â tweeted Matthew Carson of Tallahassee, Florida. âAs a father of 4 boys, I pray I can raise them to be better than that.â